Thomas Melvin Dykstra graduated from Hope College in Holland, MI with a dual degree in Mathematics and Physics and later earned an MBA from the University of Chicago. 

Tom wanted to serve his county, so he took time off from college and enlisted in the Army, serving as a Green Beret. He was stationed in Okinawa and eventually served extensively in Vietnam as part of the revered MIKE Force A-Team of the 5th Special Forces group. To honor the military service of others, Tom volunteered to provide a variety of assistance to combat special forces vets after their service, something dear to his heart. 

Tom had an extraordinary career, starting his first job after graduating with his MBA as a junior executive at AO Smith. Tom soon decided that entrepreneurship was his calling and he founded his own company Effective Management Systems in 1978. Through his hard work and perseverance, Tom and his partner grew their company from a 2-man operation, where their only assets were a card table and two chairs, to a company with sales around the world. Their software was used in the construction of the space shuttle booster rockets. 

Eventually their success led to a public offering on NASDAQ in 1994 and appearance on the INC 500 of the fastest growing companies twice at 28th and 37th. Shunning retirement, Tom continued working in some capacity until close to his passing. 

Tom served on the Board of Directors at Synergex International, a software firm, from 1995–2023, something he thoroughly enjoyed. He was a Fellow of the American Production and Inventory Control Society and gave speeches throughout the country. Later in his career Tom used his extensive knowledge and experience to help many other entrepreneurs create and successfully run their own businesses. Throughout his extensive career and many accomplishments Tom maintained that it was the people that mattered the most to him, that he was driven to be successful to ensure they could all enjoy success together. 

Tom was an advocate for education. He was elected to the Mequon-Thiensville school board, on the academic advisory board at Marquette University MBA program, and an adjunct professor at Arizona State University and Grand Canyon University in the business and MBA programs. He loved teaching and mentoring throughout his life.

Tom was predeceased by his parents Thomas and Lorraine Dykstra, his first wife Lonnie Jean, a brother and a sister. 

Tom is survived by his second wife Marjorie Marie Dykstra, a sister,  two sons, one daugter, two step daughters, two step sons and by 20 grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren..

A memorial service celebrating Toms amazing life will be held at a later date.